Our Works of Charity / David Bethuram
Support of Catholic Charities helps young mother in need
Catholic Charities agencies support the pro-life movement. Our mission centers on helping individuals—especially those in poverty and in vulnerable populations—reach their full potential from conception to natural death. This includes providing services for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities, support for families facing unplanned pregnancies, and advocacy for social justice.
Several years ago, Shannon came to Catholic Charities feeling anxious and depressed about being pregnant, initially believing adoption was her only option. Like many women in similar situations, it wasn’t her first choice, but she felt unable to provide for a second child and wanted to ensure her baby would have the stability and care every child deserves. She knew adoption could offer her child a loving, permanent home and allow her to focus on creating a better foundation for her life.
The staff at Catholic Charities immediately began counseling sessions with her. These sessions gave Shannon space not only to explore her thoughts about adoption—including its many benefits for birth parents, adoptive families and children—but also to reflect on her entire life, past and present.
She learned that adoption could be a positive, empowering decision for women who feel unprepared for parenting, offering emotional support, long-term stability for the child, and even open communication with the adoptive family.
As Shannon opened up, some of the weight of her depression began to lift, allowing her to see a path forward. With the clarity and support that counseling provided, Shannon came to realize that, for her, adoption was not the right decision.
She was then introduced to one of Catholic Charities’ birthmother counselors, who began helping her address the challenges preventing her from creating a safe, stable home for both of her children. One of the most important steps was ensuring Shannon received the mental health support she needed to better manage her depression. With improved clarity, she began taking meaningful steps toward stability.
Shannon secured Section 8 housing and moved into a new apartment. She arranged for her 5-year-old to stay temporarily with the child’s father so she could focus on settling in with her newborn. This time allowed her to find a job, locate a trusted day care with flexible hours, and enroll in school.
Today, Shannon’s life is moving in a positive direction. She now receives child support and has stable employment, and both of her children are thriving in day care. She’s pursuing an associate’s degree in health administration, made possible through a scholarship.
At her most recent meeting with her counselor—nearly three years after beginning services—Shannon shared that she no longer feels as fragile, has grown in her ability to trust others, and feels a deep sense of contentment. Despite a difficult beginning, Shannon is now building a brighter, more secure future for herself and her daughters.
Her story is a powerful example of how comprehensive support—including honest, compassionate conversations about adoption—can help women make informed, confident decisions that reflect what’s best for themselves and their children.
(David Bethuram is executive director of the archdiocesan Secretariat for Catholic Charities. You can contact him at dbethuram@archindy.org.) †